The LoveQuest Blog

No BS Truths, Tips and Hacks to Help You With Dating and Relationships. Lisa Concepcion, Founder of LoveQuest Coaching, frequently appears in the media as a trusted dating and relationship expert.

Netflix and Chill: 20 Cheap Date Ideas That Won’t Break the Bank
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Netflix and Chill: 20 Cheap Date Ideas That Won’t Break the Bank

Remember when “Netflix and chill” meant just marathoning Law & Order episodes over a few beers and pizza? It was a golden age — one where those of us with tight budgets could invite crushes over to hang out without the pressure of calling it a date (or insinuating we just wanted a hookup). If cuddling up on the couch led to more, we weren’t complaining, but it wasn’t expected. Now the phrase “Netflix and chill” is so weighted, frugal daters are forced to come up with new cheap date ideas.

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20 To Dos for Lasting Love That You Can Do Today
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20 To Dos for Lasting Love That You Can Do Today

When I was 20 I met my now ex-husband. I’m now 45 and divorced one year. We were together a total of  24 years before divorcing. We were best friends, but we didn’t find lasting love. The problem was that we lived conditional lives and held each other responsible for our own happiness.

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What Adult Children of Divorce Want Parents to Know
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What Adult Children of Divorce Want Parents to Know

I was always afraid of the squid and whale fighting,” Jesse Eisenberg’s Walt tells his therapist in The Squid and the Whale, Noah Baumbach’s semi-autobiographical tale of two brothers caught in the middle of a nasty divorce between their literary parents. “I can only look at it with my hands in front of my face.” The title of the film evokes — all at once — the famous exhibit at the Museum of Natural History, i and watching your parents argue can feel like a titanic clash between two beasts. 

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7 things that are preventing you from moving on from your ex
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7 things that are preventing you from moving on from your ex

The end of a relationship with someone isn’t easy, whether you were the one who broke things off or your partner was the one who broke up with you. Moving on can be equally difficult for some, particularly if you’re still holding on to your past relationship or things with an ex.

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10 red flags that your partner is being too controlling
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10 red flags that your partner is being too controlling

Having a healthy relationship is something that many aspire to obtain. Being able to share your deepest and darkest secrets with the person you love without holding back is a great feeling to have. Unfortunately, though, not everyone gets to experience that type of relationship. In some cases, the relationship that you're in can be more trouble than it's worth and more toxic than you may even realize. And that's especially the case if you're in a relationship with a controlling partner.

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If Your Partner Has Stopped Doing These 7 Gestures For You, Your Relationship Is At Risk
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If Your Partner Has Stopped Doing These 7 Gestures For You, Your Relationship Is At Risk

It's no secret that relationships can be tricky, especially if it's a long-term partnership. And, when it comes to maintaining that everlasting spark between two people, things can get all the more complicated. Sometimes, we may find ourselves stuck in a routine, and, as a result, we may forget how simple gestures can go a long way in terms of love and affection. That being said, if you've noticed your partner has stopped doing common, loving gestures for you, your relationship may be at risk.

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If Your Partner Says These 7 Things During An Argument, They're Looking For An Out
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If Your Partner Says These 7 Things During An Argument, They're Looking For An Out

It's no secret that every couple has healthy disagreements on occasion. Sometimes, however, arguments in relationships can a deeper meaning beneath them. For example, if your partner appears distant and seems to "shut down" during arguments, it could be a sign that the relationship is on the rocks. In other words, if you have some concerns you just can't shake about your partner, especially when it comes to arguing, it may be time to rethink the relationship.

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If You Notice These 7 Small Problems, Your Relationship May Become Toxic
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If You Notice These 7 Small Problems, Your Relationship May Become Toxic

There's no such thing as a perfectly harmonious relationship, so don't fret if you've been bickering with your partner, or if you've just had an big argument. Having the occasional disagreement is actually healthy, since it means you're both sharing your thoughts and working through problems. But it is important to keep an eye out for certain types of arguments, as well as other problems that may mean your relationship is becoming toxic.

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7 Physical Signs Your Body is Telling You Your Partner Isn't “The One"
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7 Physical Signs Your Body is Telling You Your Partner Isn't “The One"

Relationships can be confusing. One second, you're totally head-over-heels in love, and then fast-forward a few months, and you don't even recognize the person you're with anymore. You may know in your heart that your partner isn't your destined soulmate. But, weirdly enough, it turns out there may actually be physical signs your body is telling you your partner isn't "The One."

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